About the Song
Released in December 1981, “One of Us” by ABBA served as the lead single for their eighth studio album, “The Visitors.” The song marked a distinct shift in the band’s usual upbeat and jubilant style, reflecting a more introspective and melancholic tone.
While the exact inspiration behind the lyrics remains shrouded in some mystery, the song’s release coincided with a period of personal turmoil for the band members. Björn Ulvaeus and Benny Andersson, the band’s songwriting duo, were going through a highly publicized divorce, casting a shadow over the creative process.
The song’s lyrics, penned by Ulvaeus, explore themes of heartbreak, loss, and the struggle to move on after a relationship’s end. The opening line, “I’m not talking to you anymore, because I see your face in every crowd,” sets the stage for a deeply personal and emotional journey. The protagonist grapples with the pain of separation, yearning for a connection that no longer exists, and questioning their own identity in the aftermath.
“One of Us” stands as a unique composition within the ABBA discography. It deviates from their signature pop sound, incorporating a more subdued and atmospheric arrangement. The melancholic synths and poignant piano melodies create a sense of longing and vulnerability, perfectly complementing the song’s introspective lyrics.
Despite its somber theme, “One of Us” resonated deeply with audiences worldwide. It became a global hit, reaching the top ten charts in several countries. However, its reception in the United States was less enthusiastic, peaking at a much lower position on the charts. This could be attributed to the song’s release delay in the US, coinciding with ABBA’s disbandment and the changing musical landscape of the time.
“One of Us” remains a powerful testament to ABBA’s versatility and willingness to explore deeper emotional themes in their music. It continues to resonate with listeners, offering a poignant reflection on the fragility of love and the complexities of human relationships.
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Lyrics
They passed me byAll of those great romancesYou were, I felt, robbing meOf my rightful chancesMy picture clearEverything seemed so easy
And so I dealt you the blowOne of us had to goNow it’s different, I want you to know
One of us is crying, one of us is lyingIn a lonely bedStaring at the ceilingWishing she was somewhere else insteadOne of us is lonely, one of us is onlyWaiting for a callSorry for herself, feeling stupid, feeling smallWishing she had never left at all
I saw myselfAs a concealed attractionI felt you kept me awayFrom the heat and the actionJust like a childStubborn and misconceiving
That’s how I started the showOne of us had to goNow I’m changed and I want you to know
One of us is crying, one of us is lyingIn a lonely bedStaring at the ceilingWishing she was somewhere else insteadOne of us is lonely, one of us is onlyWaiting for a callSorry for herself, feeling stupid, feeling smallWishing she had never left at all
Never left at all
Staring at the ceilingWishing she was somewhere else instead
One of us is lonely, one of us is onlyWaiting for a callSorry for herself, feeling stupid, feeling small
